Self Improvement

"Well done
is better than well said."
~Benjamin Franklin
If there was any one theme throughout Ben
Franklin's life, it was self-improvement. He was one of
seventeen children; a son of a poor candle maker. He had less
than two years of formal education and began his adulthood
entirely on his own. Yet he became a wealthy man by
eighteenth-century standards and one of the most respected
intellects of the Western world. He was a model for the
rags-to-riches story of the self-made man. |
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Steps to a Self-Improved Super Attitude
It is not what happens
to you
that matters. It is how you
react to
what happens to you,
especially when facing something unexpected.
You
must decide how
you
are going to react! Following
are some things you can do to assure that your attitude is the
very best it can be, under all circumstances.
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Focus on the Future:
Focus on the future
rather than the past. Instead of worrying about who did what and
who is to blame, focus on where you want to be and what you want
to do. Get a clear mental image of your successful future, and
then take whatever action you can to move in that direction. Set
your mind, your thoughts, and your mental images on the future.
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Think About
the Solution:
When faced with a
difficulty, focus on the solution rather than on the problem.
Think about the ideal solution, rather than wasting time
rehashing on the problem. Solutions are inherently positive,
whereas problems are inherently negative. The instant you begin
thinking in terms of solutions, you become a positive and
constructive human being.
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Look for the
Good:
Assume that something
good is hidden within each challenge. Dr. Norman Vincent Peale,
a major proponent of positive thinking, once said, "Whenever God
wants to give us a gift, he wraps it up in a problem." The
bigger the gift, the bigger the problem. If you look through the
challenge for the gift, you will always find it.
You can choose
to be as positive as you want to be, if you focus on the future,
think of solutions and look for the good. Use your mind to exert
mental control over the situation, allowing you to be positive
most of the time and you will reap the benefits. Decide to be
positive! ~Brian
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MINERALS
Although minerals make up only 4-5% of total
body weight, they are essential for human metabolism. Minerals
act as the catalysts for many biochemical reactions within the
human body. They are involved in responses of the nervous system
and muscles, the absorption and secretions of the body's fluids,
and maintain a delicate water balance within the body. Our bones
and teeth have high mineral contents which accounts for their
hardness and rigidity. Like vitamins, minerals must also
be supplied by dietary means as we are unable to synthesize them
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“Only to the extent that someone is living out
this self transcendence of human existence, is he truly human or
does he become his true self. He becomes so, not by concerning
himself with his self's actualization, but by forgetting himself
and giving himself, overlooking himself and focusing outward.”
~ Dr. Viktor Emil Frankl |
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“When you change the way you look at things, the
things you look at change.”
~Dr. Wayne W. Dyer
“Every action and every feeling is preceded by
thought, whether conscious or unconscious. Success and
happiness, therefore, depend on what you think. Strive to adhere
to the three rules for successful thinking: think kindly, think
objectively, and think constructively.”
~John R. Fishbein,
Ph.D.
“Everyone has unique gifts and talents. What you
love is what you’re gifted at. To be completely happy, to live a
completely fulfilled life, you have to do what you love.”
~Barbara Sher
“Everything can be taken from a man but the last
of human freedoms, the right to choose one's attitude in any
given set of circumstances--the right to choose one's own way.”
~Dr. Viktor E. Frankl
“Obstacles are those frightful things you see
when you take your eyes off your goal.”
~Henry Ford
“The reason that most major goals are not
achieved is that we spend our time doing second things first.”
~Robert McKain
“Forward… Never look round to see whether any
shall note it…. Be satisfied with success in even the smallest
matter, and think that even such a result is no trifle.”
~Marcus Aurelius
“Try to become NOT a [person] of success, but
try rather to become a [person] of value.”
~Albert Einstein
“The only place success comes before work is in
the dictionary.”
~Donald Kendall
“The test and the use of man's education is that
he finds pleasure in the exercise of his mind.”
~Jacques Barzun |
BENJAMIN FRANKLIN’S SELF-IMPROVEMENT
PHILOSOPHY:
The Spirit-Mind-Body Connection
Centuries before it was fashionable, Ben
Franklin understood the importance of a holistic approach to the
self. His methods of self-improvement made an important
connection between the spirit, the mind and the body. Franklin's
entire life reflected his belief in self-improvement, and from
adolescence until his death at eighty-four, he worked constantly
to improve himself.
SPIRIT:
Moral Perfection
As a youth, Franklin didn't always behave
responsibly. At the age of 20, he decided to change the
direction of his life by embarking on a course he called "moral
perfection." He created a list of resolutions to follow. He
resolved to be more frugal so he could save enough money to
repay debts he owed. He decided he would be honest "in every
word and action." He promised to be industrious "to whatever
business I take in hand." He vowed "to speak ill of no man
whatever, not even in a manner of truth" and to "speak all the
good I know of every body."
MIND:
Self-education
Ben apprenticed at a printing shop, and it was
there he decided to improve his writing abilities. He studied
writings of authors whose style he liked, then practiced writing
essays in their same style. He re-wrote famous essays, trying to
improve them. He wrote sentences of an essay on slips of paper,
shuffled the slips, and reassembled them in the correct order.
During his apprenticeship, he was exposed to a
variety of books and he read everything he could. Not only was
he an avid reader, but he loved to discuss what he read!
Franklin's endless curiosity helped him maintain
a spirit of lifelong learning. He continued his scientific
inquiries, he corresponded with some of the greatest minds of
the 18th century, he met with scholars and scientists in every
country, and he learned French late in life.
BODY:
Physical Activity
When most people think of Ben Franklin, they
don't usually think of an athlete. However, Franklin was an
early proponent of physical fitness. In an age when few people
knew how to swim, Franklin taught himself how to swim, and was
an avid swimmer all his life. He even considered becoming a
full-time swim instructor, and is in the Swimming Hall of Fame.
In England, Franklin found work in a print shop
where most of the apprentices spent much of their time getting
drunk. Franklin knew that the mind and body were much more
productive when not impaired by alcohol. Franklin decided to
drink water instead of beer and encouraged his co-workers to do
the same. He wasn't successful at convincing all his colleagues
to change their ways, but Franklin's clear-headed work and
productive physical strength were recognized and rewarded with
promotions. Most printers could only carry a single tray of
heavy lead type, while Ben Franklin was known for carrying two
trays! |
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